Saturday, September 22, 2012
Epilogue
Written by Michelle...
"Dear friends and family,
Thank you for your kind words and support since I haven't updated my blog but I have some things to share with you."
That's as far as Rhone got on his last blog update. About a week before he passed away, Daniel (a pastor from our church) came by. He suggested that Rhone think about updating his blog to share what was on his mind, both as an update on his condition and to talk about his faith. He recommended an app called Dragon that does voice to text. We loaded it on the iPad and Rhone gave it a shot (the above), but he was just too tired. It was hard for him, because this blog was so very important to him and he knew that it was (and will continue to be) a source of information, comfort, and inspiration to all those who read it. So, I will do my best to pick up for him here.
In his last updates, Rhone told you about his two June hospitalizations. In the following weeks, his focus was on two key things. First, to reduce the swelling (or ascities) in his abdomen. Second was to focus on building up his strength. Despite all his best efforts, at the end of July his doctor told him that he was unlikely to be in condition to receive chemotherapy for at least six weeks. At the same time, it was becoming obvious that we needed some additional help at home. His doctor suggested that we enter the hospice program. Rhone had been very reluctant to even think about hospice in the past. However, with his abdomen swelling, his balance unreliable (with a new, large center of gravity in his mid-section), and his worsening discomfort and difficulty even finding a comfortable place to sleep in our home, it was obvious that we needed some additional resources. And a hospital bed. With that, Rhone accepted hospice in order to support his objectives of improving his condition and returning to chemotherapy.
Right around the time that hospice started, Rhone was admitted for a day procedure at the University of Washington hospital to have a Pluerx catheter put in. He had gone in previously for outpatient paracentesis to take off fluid, but it took a lot out of him to go in for that and there was a solution where we could have a catheter inserted and be able to do the same type of fluid removal at home. The catheter leaves an external tube to that allows draining of the fluid into a vacuum pressured one liter bottle. I am sure Rhone would want me to show you a picture and perhaps describe in detail all the steps to complete this procedure. I don't have any pictures, but suffice to say it was a multi step process involving careful focus on keeping the environment sterile and controlling the amount of fluid removed to avoid dangerous drops in blood pressure. We would take off between 500 milliliters and one liter a few times a week. On only one occasion did Rhone have a reaction to the draining. That was a feeling of nausea that subsided within about a half-hour after fluid was drained from his abdomen. Fortunately, his nurse had just left and she was in her car making calls when I ran out to get her. Typically, the draining left him with much relief and took fluid down in a visually noticeable amount. So, while it was a palliative treatment, it definitely was a positive for Rhone and made him feel at least somewhat better each time it was done. Thank goodness for Debra, our hospice nurse, but I am proud to tell you I completed the procedure a few times on my own (with Rhone directing, of course, as he could have done it himself blindfolded!).
Overall, the time between the start of hospice on July 28 and Rhone's passing on August 22 was quite difficult. He continued to experience more and more fatigue, and was clearly frustrated at his lack of progress. However, it is important to note that whenever he was asked how he was doing, his response was "pretty good." Only one time, and very late in the process, was his answer "not so good." But it still included the word good! Which I think is quite remarkable. I will always cherish those days. Up until the last few days of his life, we would continue to try to get out once a day. The trips became more challenging, and we got stranger and stranger looks at the places we went. However, it was very important to Rhone to continue to live and be out in the world. He could not have cared less that he was walking around with a walker and bright white knee-high compression socks on. He even received a blood transfusion the week before he passed away, in the hopes of improving his energy levels. He was setting up his Fantasy Football team four days before he died. I remain in awe of his courage, determination, and positive attitude. His positivity was unrelenting, and made it a joy to be married to him and to care for him.
It is very important to me that this blog have his full journey captured. I hope that you, his faithful readers, will continue to share his story and provide his blog to people dealing with this cancer, or really any cancer. We have heard stories of people pointing friends to it just for the post on what chemo is really like. He did such a great job of laying bare the facts and the optimism specific to his case, but made it relatable to all. He was inspiring in all that he did, and the blog is no exception. And please remember, he did not "lose" his fight. He impacted this world in many important ways - then went to a place free of pain and suffering, knowing that he would be in God's grace. I call that a win.
Rhone did a great job acknowledging those who gave him medical care. It's worth calling out again. Dr. Whiting, whose departure to focus on research was an immense loss to the University of Washington system and to countless patients. All the team at the Seattle Care Alliance, who do their work with such care, focus and compassion. I believe the three most critical factors in a fight like this are patient attitude, proactive medical care with a willingness to think creatively, and patient advocates who support, search, question and defend. We tried to ensure Rhone rarely, if ever, attended any appointments alone. He had a team in his family, who all came together to ensure he got the best care he could.
To those who continue to fight fibrolamellar, and to those who will be diagnosed in the future and come across this blog, I wish you all the best and I hope and pray that we will find a cure for this terrible disease very soon. In just the past month alone, the world has also lost two amazing young women to this disease. In honor of Kayte, Liza Blue, Rhone and all those who went before them - we will never stop fighting for you.
Thank you all for your support.
Aloha Rhone, we miss you more than words can say.
Saturday, July 14, 2012
NOT AGAIN!
They gave me a Tylenol, took x-rays, and did a CT scan to see if any of the stents from the previous week had shifted out of position but also to rule other possibilities out. While I was waiting for the CT scan results the fever had broken and I felt pretty good, considering I was sleeping on an uncomfortable bed in ER at 2am or so. All of the quick blood work and the CT scan came back clean, but my symptoms were so symptomatic of infection that they began me on a course of antibiotics anyway.
The oncology attending doctor took particular interest in the infection being in my ascites. An ascites is a bloody fluid build up in a cavity in your body. The fluid should be kind of a watery bloody mix and doesn't necessarily show up on any regular blood tests since it's kind of like a jar of fluid with a membrane surrounding it. My ascities was caused by the internal bleeding I had during the last "episode" (Mine is quite large, like 8 months pregnant large). Ultimately, my doctor decided to ultrasound then biopsy the ascities to determine if the fluid in there had infection. You may ask why not just suck all the fluid out at once if you're going to be in there with that torturer's needle, and he had a good answer, but I can't remember what it was. The most painful part of the biopsy is when they insert the painkiller. They do so in progressive stages, but boy does it sting like a son of a bitch. When the worst pain is behind me, I look down at my lower abdomen to see what's going to and happily see a bloody fluid filling up this humongo tube. The whole thing from ultrasound to band aid over the biopsy site took less than ten minutes.
However, my mid-section was pretty much uncovered during the whole ten minutes and I mentioned I started to feel cold. Nothing was done. Colder, nada. Until my arms started to shake. They rushed to get warm blanks, socks, and quilts but nothing would work control the chills and shakes I was having. I was really shaking to the point where it was harder to breath, talking came out in spurts, and my legs were cramping up super bad. After blasting hot lights at me and covering every part of my body multiple times with warm blankets, they gave me demerol which helped slowly calm my body down to the point I wasn't twitching uncontrollably. My fever was still there, despite the Tylenol, I had just gone through bad chills, and now my blood pressure was dropping dangerously low, so I was immediately sent to the ICU. What a difference this ICU experience was compared to the last one!
Not only was the room bigger and more fancy, but the male RN taking care of me was phenomenal. He really knew his stuff and helped with the fever, kept me in the loop, and monitored me. I felt like he was totally my advocate. The biggest hurdle was to get the blood pressure under control on its own. In the ICU, it was being supported by IV medication to keep it above acceptable levels. Over time, I was able to recover normal vital signs without medicinal help. Since a positive culture had not yet shown up on all my labs, the doctors decided it must be the stents. Although I had just undergone an ERCP three or four weeks back, we went ahead with another one. This ERCP was uneventful and in a day would help to bring my bilirubin down a few points (good thing) and make most of my other critical counts head in a positive direction. I was moved back down to the regular rooms again for a couple days then released on July 4th. I was not about to spend my birthday and July 4th in a hospital bed!
During the time I was in the hospital the second go around, any progress I had made after being released for the first time was pretty much gone. They were also pumping me full of fluids in the ICU to make sure I wasn't dehydrated. As you can expect, my stomach and abdomen were larger than they had ever been. The check out process was just a mess and the intern was completely overwhelmed. I ended up taking too low a dose of a key type of medicine after being released again, until my oncologist doubled the dose a few days later.
In any event, I'm still taking it day by day. Chemo is off the table for a while since my body is really fragile and has lost a ton of muscle mass (skin & bones on my upper back....eeewww). However, I can't eat large meals because the ascites (bloated stomach) pushes against my stomach cavity giving there less space in there.
Please pray for continued strength of body and mind for me and that I have no other "episodes" so I can get back to chemo therapy.
Stay Well,
Rhone
Friday, July 6, 2012
Internal Bleeding & Hospitalization
Sunday, February 26, 2012
Bilirubin Update #4
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Bilirubin Update #3
Bilirubin Update #2
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
5 months of ups and downs - January 2012
Whew, what a rollercoaster ride these last 5 or so months have been! A lot has happened, and with each “event” occurring within a few weeks of one another, I put off posting to this blog until it became so daunting to actually tell the whole story that I’ve put it off until now.
In late September, I successfully underwent Y90 radioembolization on the right lobe of my liver. A month later, a CT scan showed that the Y90 had pretty much killed all of the new cancer spots in my liver – amazing for it to happen this quickly! It’s hard to say whether the procedure was completely curative, only time can tell that, but the Y90 killed all the new cancer that could be seen with modern techniques. The downside to the procedure has been prolonged, at times sharp pain to my lower right flank/lower back where the right lobe of the liver and right kidney is. This pain came on about a week after the Y90 procedure and hasn’t let up much since. The pain leads to pain medication, which leads to hard to control constipation. I’ve been dealing with constipation for the past 3-4 months with a bout of different medicines.
After a few emergency room visits and guesses at the pain potentially being caused by an inflamed, irradiated gall bladder or kidney stones (both of which have been ruled out for the time being), I started to develop jaundice 3 weeks ago. Jaundice is where your skin and the whites of your eyes turn a hue of “yellow”, not mustard yellow, but certainly not a normal skin tone that can be found at the cosmetics counter! The reason I developed jaundice was because one of my liver counts, bilirubin, began going up above normal levels. Bilirubin is usually excreted through the bile or urine – so when you aren’t peeing or bile is not flowing correctly in the body, bilirubin goes up and you can develop jaundice. The doctors did an ultrasound and looked in detail at the bile ducts in and around my liver to determine if there was any narrowing or blockage that would cause improper flow of bile from my liver. They saw some slight narrowing on the scan, enough to warrant going in to take a look.
So this past Thursday, I had an ERCP procedure where they stuck a camera down my throat, through my stomach and into the upper digestive area so they could see what was going on with the liver bile ducts. They felt there was enough narrowing to warrant placing a short term plastic stent in the bile duct leading from the right lobe of my liver into the digestive tract. Hopefully, this will fix the problem by allowing the bile to flow freely from the liver as needed. Unfortunately, the ERCP has side effects of its own – the most significant being temporary increased pain in the abdomen and liver area and doesn’t cure things over night. It can take up to a week for my body to show any results. The proof of success can be measured via blood tests to check the bilirubin levels. I have the first of those blood tests in the next day or two. I’ll be praying for positive results this week – at least a stabilization of the bilirubin and hopefully a decrease. The bilirubin continuing to rise can lead to liver failure and can be life threatening in the shorter term, so I have stopped all forms of chemo since early January in hopes of not irritating my liver any more so than it already is. I am in good spirits and will continue to fight against these set backs, but the increased bilirubin has made me more concerned than I can remember being lately. Oh and by the way, the 49ers made it all the way to the NFC championships – woo hoo! What a great run, producing the best pro game I have ever seen.
****Update from Tuesday: I wrote the above on Monday but didn’t get around to publishing it. I had a blood test and check in with my doctor today. The results were not what I had hoped or prayed for, as my bilirubin levels have continued to increase since the ERCP procedure. My doctors think I would have at least seen them stabilize or go down if the constricted bile duct (what the ERCP fixed) was in fact the culprit of the increased bilirubin counts. My total bilirubin counts have been raising a couple points over the past 2 weeks at each of the 3 day intervals where I get blood drawn – right now they are around 11.2, with normal being less than 1.5. My oncologist said there really is no bilirubin level where they start to get overly concerned, since it’s all relative to the rest of the liver functions – they have seen levels as high as above 30 in functioning patients. The short answer is they really don’t know what’s causing my bilirubin levels to go up or how to stabilize them at this point in time.
The ray of sunshine from otherwise disappointing results is that the rest of my liver counts are getting better or staying the same. Liver failure would come into play if all counts get worse over time and my liver started shutting down as a result. They are concerned about the continued rise of the bilirubin levels, but are buoyed by the fact the bilirubin counts are the only ones that are getting worse. This is a-typical and they aren’t sure what’s causing it. It could be general radiation damage to the liver, for which I’m taking a combination of high dose antioxidants (Vitamin C & E) as well as pentoxyflline. Pentoxyflline works to improve the blood flow in the body, especially in small blood vessels, by decreasing the viscosity of the blood. It is usually used for pain in the hands and feet, but may be able to help reverse any damage to my liver. The liver is also an amazing organ and could start to "heal" itself over time and stabilize the bilirubin on it's own - let's hope for that :)
At this point, it’s a wait and see game where only time will be able to tell what happens next. My doctors will continue to look for different, progressive ways to help offset the liver damage, but my well being over time is hard to predict at this point. I have to take advantage of each healthy day as it comes and deal with any hurdles that get thrown in my path – and I certainly will do that! I am more tired than usual and have lost a considerable amount of weight in the past 5 months (down to about 120 lbs), although my appetite recently has been very good. If you or any doctors you know have any suggestions on how best to attack radiation induced liver damage or high bilirubin counts, please email immediately with the ideas and I will take them up with my oncologist.
I’ve been slightly overwhelmed by the ups and down of cancer these past few months and have had to really rely on the support of my family and friends, you all! I wouldn’t be continuing the fight without you, seriously. As I promised earlier, I will take each day as it comes, cherish the good days, and will certainly do a better job of updating my blog more regularly.
Take care,
Rhone